Do’s and Dont’s at KC - a guide to RP (august 2018)

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Do’s and Dont’s at KC - a guide to RP (august 2018)

Post by KinkstersChat » Sun Aug 26, 2018 12:52 pm

At KinkstersChat we’ve always tried to keep our rules as few, as simple and as short as possible, because we want you to be able to enjoy as much kinky freedom as possible, with the understanding that you keep it legal and engage in common sense (yes, we know, common sense, seems to be curiously uncommon).

We consider ourselves a fairly permissive and laid-back chat, but over the years we have had to clamp down hard on a few select fetishes due to a fair amount of people being unable to follow the rules, kink responsibly or, hell, even staying within legality.

This leaves us with being unable to allow incestplay, bestialityplay and non-bdsm ageplay, amongst other things. Please read the rules to be fully informed.

We regret that it has come to this, but we will not sit by any longer and try to combat the many people who have no morals, no ethics and not a care in the world about the absolutely unacceptable sexual practice they are engaging in. If you have been engaging in the sort of ageplay described in altopedia (incestplay exempt), we regret that this might mean a restriction on the play you enjoy. If you are one of the ones doing exactly the sort of play that has lead to this, get off the internet (or learn to be a decent human being).

Without further delay, below you can read more about the three main groups of play that are not allowed at KC:

Incestplay, familyplay

The incestplay fetish is completely forbidden on KC - and as far as related fetishes there are none. The practical implication of this is that any and all incest-related roleplay and fetish discussion is off the table, and offenders will be removed from the site. We look at incestplay in a broad sense, which includes, but is not necessarily limited to; cousins, aunts, uncles, step-family and family members.

Please do not bring your incestfantasies into KinkstersChat, no matter which flavour they may have. In the past it has caused a wildfire of sharing of illegal underaged content and this is the primary reason we decided to close down our incest-fantasy related channels in April 2017.


Obviously bestiality has never been allowed at KC, but up until April 2017, we did allow roleplaying the fetish of bestiality play. Due to abuse and numerous incidents and reports of the real thing, we chose to disallow even the fantasy.

However, we still allow furryplay and petplay (human, human-hybrid play and fantasy creature play).


As of august 2018 we are disallowing ageplay on KinkstersChat. This is done with a mix of a heavy heart and feeling like a burden has been lifted. We’ve ruminated for many months on what to do to fix the issues we are facing in regards to this last problematic fetish area, where a large part of the denizens in #Ageplayers are engaging in anything BUT ageplay.

We are partially at fault for this, as we’ve allowed “ageplay” with a distinct physical and age-focused component for a long time, citing that it if it was fantasy and between two consenting adults, it was OK. This type of “child-avatar” play has caused a lot of people to come to KC expecting to be able to engage in pedoplay, either based on real children or “child-avatars”, expecting to engage in shared fantasies of minors, expecting to be able to freely share pictures, videos etc of minors, as well as expecting it to be perfectly OK to ask other chatters about their kids and want to talk sexy about these children. We’re here to tell you, none of the above mentioned is ageplay, and it has never been ageplay.

Altopedia wiki on ageplay describes it well:
“Ageplay or age play is a form of Roleplay in which an individual acts or treats another as if they were a different age, we realise that should be fairly obvious.

Ageplay is role playing between adults, and like all Roleplay, it requires consent from all parties.
Portraying any age can be part of the goal for ageplay, this can go from Adult Babies, to acting like the elderly. Usually it will involve someone pretending to be younger than they actually are, but more rarely can involve assuming the role of someone much older.

Ageplay can take on a sexual or non-sexual nature, or it could be mildly sexual, or extremely sexual.

Ageplay can enhance the power dynamic, it also allows a partner to feel more comfortable with their role within Domination or Submission.

Ageplay is not considered pedophilia, and is not related to pedophilia, this is according to professional psychologists. Individuals who ageplay are not attracted to children, but instead enjoy portraying children, or enjoy childlike elements typical of children present in adults.

Sexual ageplay itself does not involve the sexual attraction to biologically underage people. Rather, when a consenting adult takes on the roleplaying mindset of a young person, it is motivated by re-experiencing emotional states and social interactions of one's youth, which also happen to be pleasurable in a sexual context to the participants.”

In other words, ageplay is not about children and/or child-like bodies, but rather the power dynamic between the adult players where one or both enjoy portraying childlike characteristics, emotionally and socially.

Going forward only the below mentioned related fetishes will be allowed at KC:

BIG, Middle and little play

In #BigsAndLittles you will be able to find BIGs, Middles and littles who engage in play within the framework mentioned above from altopedia. You will be allowed to roleplay the following dynamics:

- BIG/little
- BIGS: Daddy, Mommy, Big, Owner
- littles: girl, boy, little, middle, pet

You will not be able to realistically portray the physical attributes of a child for sexual purposes (e.g. puffy cunny, flat chest) but can still engage in imaginary size differences for the purpose of the power dynamic (e.g. being picked up, too short to reach a counter etc)

ABDL play

In #ABDL you will be able to engage in play within the ABDL (adult baby and diaper lovers) fetish, with respect to the rules and the guidelines given above under “Ageplay”.

Removal from KC due to engaging in “ageplay” (read: ageplay that is not ageplay, but an excuse to get wood (or ladywood) to fantasies of children)

Instead of trying to compile a long and complicated list of “Don’ts” in regards to Ageplay, we’re going with a FORBID ALL, except the sort of play that falls within “BIG, Middle and little play” and “ABDL play”. If you engage in roleplay outside of these fetishes you will be removed from the server. Should you be approached by someone wanting to ageplay outside of the play allowed, you are expected to report this to us via e-mail as soon as possible. If you are found to be protecting someone engaged in play that is not allowed, you will, once this is discovered, be removed from the server along with the offender.

Cheers and Kink On
To all of the chatters, who understand and support the decisions we’ve had to make, we would like to give you a heartfelt thank you and we look forward to chatting with you in the future and to make KC great again 😉 No really, it’ll be tremendous!

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